Your advice has helped me become more open-minded by encouraging me to ask deeper, more meaningful questions when getting to know a man. For example, to determine if someone has integrity, ask them to tell you about different situations they’ve encountered and how they handled them. There has to be consistency in their actions not just in one situation, but throughout their life and past relationships. Think of it like job interview questions, such as, “How do you handle conflict?” Asking them to describe a specific conflict, how they handled it, and what the outcome was can reveal a lot about their character.